Tuesday, October 6, 2009

What to do when your spouse views education very differently than you do?

What to do when your spouse views education very differently than you do?

There is a "right" way to do school work. There is a "right" way to interview of a job. There is a "right" way to be polite and considerate. But to some and one person especially, my husband, this code of conduct is not important. I am annoyed when this view is not respected nor acknowledged.

I think it is being selfish to not do one's best. I think it is wrong to not try hard. I think it is wrong and selfish to not be part of the community. I think that core differences in values become apparent when raising children. I think some people just live in their own bubble and stay detached- they also spend a lot of time alone.

I am tired of arguing.