What to do when your spouse views education very differently than you do?

What to do when your spouse views education very differently than you do?

There is a "right" way to do school work. There is a "right" way to interview of a job. There is a "right" way to be polite and considerate. But to some and one person especially, my husband, this code of conduct is not important. I am annoyed when this view is not respected nor acknowledged.

I think it is being selfish to not do one's best. I think it is wrong to not try hard. I think it is wrong and selfish to not be part of the community. I think that core differences in values become apparent when raising children. I think some people just live in their own bubble and stay detached- they also spend a lot of time alone.

I am tired of arguing.